My experience in dating a trans woman

Dating as a trans woman is hard, as there is always the point where you have to tell the other person about your history. But dating a trans woman or trans man, that pressure isn’t there. Because they understand the situation much better than a cis-gendered person.

I have dated both cis and trans women, and none of them so far have ever had an issue with it. Some of them liked my “permeant strap on” and were happy for me to use it, others we found ways to have a romantic situation that was sexual without using it.

But when you date a trans woman thigs are much more relaxed in the bedroom, as lines in the sand are normally drawn on what is and isn’t acceptable behaviour. This then quickly becomes the norm and becomes hoy you have a sexual relationship, with or without toughing genitalia.

Bar one person I only dated people whines I was pre-op and I didn’t mind if they touched my bits or not. I had initially dated a trans woman when I first transition, but she was highly submissive and would ask me all sorts of questions about what she should do with her life.

This was tiring and exhausting and I decided not to date a trans women again for a while. So I didn’t after that I was only dating cis women and none of them minded about my little bit downstairs. I was happy with this arrangement I could effectively…